How it works
Four simple steps, at whatever pace suits you.
Step one
Join in a few minutes
Fill in the short form above. It's free and only takes a few minutes.
Step two
Meet people near you
Say what you're looking for and where you live, and browse members who are looking for the same.
Step three
Take your time
Chat for as long as you like before you meet. There's no rush, and no pressure.
Step four
Get VIP Access
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Dating again after divorce
Starting again can feel daunting. This is a place to do it at your own pace, with people who understand.
No explaining
People who get it
The Divorced Pond is made for people dating again after divorce or separation, so your past needs no long explanation.
Your pace
No rush
Chat for as long as you like, meet when you're ready, and take things one step at a time.
Dating safely
Your safety comes first
Private messaging, profile badges and simple ways to report anyone who doesn't feel right. Share as little as you like until you're comfortable.
What members are saying
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"I'm loving it on here, I hope I find a man for myself. I want a man for a long term relationship"
— Freya, 42, Essendon
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Tips for your dating journey
Practical guidance on dating again after divorce, from your first message to your first date.
Starting again
Dating after divorce: how to know you're ready
There's no set waiting time. These are the signs you're ready, and how to ease yourself back in.
Getting started
Online dating has changed: a guide if you're coming back to it
How it works now, and how to get started with confidence.
First dates
First dates after divorce
How to plan one, what to talk about, and how to handle the nerves.
Dating safely
Romance scams after a break-up
How romance scams work, the warning signs, and what to do if you're worried.